Patty wrote this in reference to Jason's words at the SDSU Memorial that I'd posted below:
I couldn't help but cry. You are so right, Jason really got Gene and loved him too. Between your preface, Jason's outline and having a first hand insight into the incredible person that Jason is, I could almost "hear" his talk. It also makes me realize again that because Gene was such a powerfully authentic individual that his absence is so much more intensely felt by all those who loved him. So, no, it's not just that he was with us and now he is gone and now we just adjust; it's more that his presence was so strong that he actually influenced our thoughts and actions, so the void that we feel is massive and it permeates into every corner of our lives and is felt even at times that you might not expect it. I miss Gene and think of him often, things that he said, conversations we had, skiing, Hawaii, The Farm, beach walks, out-to-breakfasts, coffee at home and even a beer here and there. Because Gene gave so much, we have a lot to hang on to, appreciate and reflect on. As painful and difficult as it is for you to be apart form Gene each day, I have no doubt that at the same time you know in your heart how lucky you are to have shared so much of your life with him and have received the greatest of his love. You have that to carry with you for all of the rest of your days.
